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April 23, 2011

Women are Losers and Winners

Are you trying to figure out what women want or how to get the girl? Well, here's some advice from an old '80s band called Accept: They're losers and winners.:

You told me that you like her
But she doesn't wanna know
You tried so much to take her
But there's no way to go

I know that kind of feeling
Knocking on someone's door
I know the endless crying
When you don't know what you're living for

Write a letter (what's the matter)
You'll feel better (write a letter)
You'll feel better when it's done

Here's an example. Earlier today I clicked over to one of those sexually explicit sites and saw a video of a hot chick, maybe 20 years old, giving a guy of around the same age a little bit of "mouth action". It was clearly a bit of amateur video, because you could tell that whoever was shooting it was hiding behind something, probably something hanging, and the person shooting the video was probably in a closet. The guy who was getting sucked would occasionally look toward the camera and communicate using a grin or another facial expression, so he clearly knew he was being videotaped. The girl had no clue.

Anyway, they're both totally naked on a bed and for a while the girl is on her back while the guy 'effs her in the mouth. This goes on for quite a while. But then the guy gets up and stands on the floor at the foot of the bed. The girl gets into a really hot doggy position and keeps going down on him. Suddenly she stops and says, "Don't you come on me! Don't come on me!" He assures her that he won't and she goes back to work. He grins at the camera with a knowing smile and then works himself in her mouth until he's ready to pop. At the moment of truth, he grips her head to hold her in place while he shoots his contribution into her mouth as she struggles to get away. When he finally lets her go, she hurries off to the side of the bed, takes a big drink of something out of a plastic cup at the side of the bed, then slams it down and says, "You BASTARD! You promised you wouldn't come on me!" She was really mad. He says that he didn't come on her, that he came in her mouth, knowing full well that he was playing word games. She's still cursing and she starts getting dressed. And then, at this point, the guy holding the camera steps out of his hiding place and she sees him. Still standing there naked from the waist down, she says, "What's this...?!!!" That's where the video ended.

There is one way to show
What you feel for the girl
Write her a lovely letter
Tell her what you're looking for

Don't think it's old fashioned
To take one's heart (when it's true)
You gotta take it as a man
When you can't win her in this game

Write a letter (what's the matter)
You'll feel better (write a letter)
You'll feel better when it's done

So, what's the point? Well, this guy was clearly a jerk. Not only is he willing to make her do something during an intimate moment that she clearly does not want to do, but he's also got some guy that she doesn't know about filming the escapade without her knowledge. Additionally, the facial expressions he made when he communicated with the camera were clearly very "macho" in attitude. And, no doubt, the video was probably uploaded to that website without her permission. Hell, he and his filming friend probably showed the video off to lots of their friends before uploading it and embarrassed the girl.

So the question is this: Why was this super sexy girl even in that situation with the guy in the first place? The answer is: women are losers and winners, just like you and me. They want to have sex, just like we do. And this guy, although I saw nothing special about him, wasn't fat - he was in decent shape - so she probably found him sexy - or, at the very least, adequate. And, most importantly, he probably asked her to have sex with him. And that's what women want: opportunities for sex.

There are losers and winners
Just like you and me
Losers and winners - just like you and me

You should give me the letter
I'll use it for my own (ha ha)
Maybe she wants to take me
Before she stays alone

Could be my destination
To pick up broken heart
Why don't you take it easy
And screw the girl who's next to you

Write a letter (what's the matter)
You'll feel better (write a letter)
You'll feel better when it's done

Let's dwell on that for a second, because it is important. It's the old "Nice guys vs assholes" issue: women say that they want "nice guys", yet men who consider themselves to be "nice guys" see these women lost to "assholes" - and they don't feel a bit sorry for the women when they complain about being abused as a result.

The issue is easily resolved, though. The men who consider themselves "nice guys" aren't the kinds of guys that women call "nice guys". Instead, these men are typically guys who are afraid of offending women - or, for that matter, afraid of offending anyone. Thus they never make a move, they never as the girl out or...heaven forbid...ask the girl back to their place. Instead, these "nice guys" tell themselves that they're "respecting her", when the truth is that they're just cowards. Women usually refer to them as "pushovers".

What women mean when they say "nice guys" are a special class of "bad boys". Bad boys are guys who aren't afraid of offending people, they're not afraid to find themselves in conflict or tense situations, and they sure aren't afraid of asking a girl back to their place for some steamy fun. Women LOVE Bad Boys. But women want a special class of these bad boys who women, themselves, refer to as "nice guys". What a woman means when she says that she wants a nice guy is that she wants a bad boy who won't sleep with her sister or her best friend. What women want is to find a hot bad boy, tame him, and have his sexiness all to herself.

So, back to the girl from the video: what was she doing with that asshole? Well, women don't want to lose either. Imagine yourself in the position of the woman when a guy asks her back to his place for some sex. For her, this is an opportunity. She might not be ready for it, maybe doesn't even want it on that very night. But, she's under pressure. She's thinking of all of the future opportunities she might miss out on if she tells him no. Will he ask her out again? Will she get more of a chance to get to know him? She wants him to be happy, so chances are that she accepts his proposal. And, if he's taken care of himself (i.e., he's not fat), chances are that she feels a bit of biological urge to get into his pants as well.


And speaking of hot girls, check out Mariette, here. She's awesome. She loves roses, sensual kisses, champagne, a sincere smile, sparkling eyes, and a gentleman who know how to treat a girl. Say 'Hello' to her, eh?

Posted by Lance at April 23, 2011 09:03 PM

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